an overflow of words..

2011-05-06T21:27:00.000+08:00

Bruno Mars had a Grenade, and Tiao Cruz had a Dynamite, so they both threw them at Katy Perry who exploded like a Firework. The bang was so loud that the Black Eyed Peas forgot The Time, while Rihanna had memory loss and ran around saying What’s My Name. Eminem looked around and said I’m Not Afraid, then Willow Smith began to Whip Her Hair, which scared The Far East Movement who began to fly like a G6. Nelly then woke up and sighed as he said it was Just A Dream.

2011-05-04T03:02:00.003+08:00

"Perfect Nightmare"

- Shontelle

Sometimes we fight, sometimes I cry
Why don't I just tell him goodbye
Sometimes I should, but sometimes I don't
Build up the strength to say that it's wrong
Sometimes I hate, sometimes I love
Sometimes I hurt, sometimes I don't
Sometimes I wait for him to change
But it's okay, I've disguised the pain
And I don't ever wanna leave him alone
They say I'm brainwashed but I'm in love with this man,

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it
I already know I don't deserve it
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare
So when will I wake up and scream
No way, no way, no way,
No way, no way, no way, no way
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare, perfect nightmare

Sometimes I keep my cool, sometimes I let him know
Sometimes I even pack my bags to walk out the door
Sometimes I feel safe, sometimes I really don't
Sometimes I promise that I'm ready to let him go
But I don't ever wanna leave him alone
They say I'm brainwashed but I'm in love with this man,

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it
I already know I don't deserve it
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare
So when will I wake up and scream
No way, no way, no way,
No way, no way, no way, no way
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare, perfect nightmare

Hoping he's changing, but I'm scared he's not
Can't see a way to leave, help me open my eyes

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it
I already know I don't deserve it
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare, perfect

Keep telling myself that it's not worth it (no way)
I already know I don't deserve it
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting (don't mind hurting)
This is my perfect nightmare
So when will I wake up and scream
No way, no way, no way,
No way, no way, no way, no way
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare, perfect nightmare

No way, no way, no way,
No way, no way, no way, no way
But if it's from you I don't mind hurting
This is my perfect nightmare, perfect nightmare

Perfect nightmare.

PERFECT LYRICS,I LOVE IT!

2011-05-02T23:43:00.005+08:00

it was raining so heavily this evening..and i was feeling so alone at home as no one was there..

so what i did is grabbed my,DSLR and started to take snaps, nothing was clear, even the twin towers were covered with the cloudy weather.. i waited for a while and noticed the rain cleaning the city sky ,the buildings then seemed to appear in black version it's like as if they were painted black only,thats when i took this picture, well it exactly didn't come out this way..i have done a slight editing on it..anyhow i hope you like the picture..

cause i am sincerely in love with the colour contrast..

it was during sunset by the way(:

2011-05-02T23:38:00.002+08:00

Gradually our house is getting done, well it's not done yet though..

the family lobby still awaits the book shelf and lots more decoration..

i am in love with our new 3D Sony Bravia home theater with blue ray updated..

Just felt like sharing with, whoever reads my blog ..

2011-05-02T00:57:00.004+08:00

what Cassie had to say about me.. .

"well, it takes one to know the other

maya is really dear to me
she is smart, witty and when you least expect it she jus shock u with her generous heart, loving gesture and most of make you laugh and laugh until you feel like you have burned all the extra fat your are carrying...
who needs to diet when she is around!!
love you girl"

-kaycee

"the best thing abt you is that you are so bloody smart....i jus wish you could see it from my eyes as for sharing experiences...we all need to but most importantly in sharing is reflecting back on us and not becoming a silly sheep imitating others
thank you for being brave enough to share with me that you have fears, imperfection, sorrow...all that makes us human

it is so easy being me when i am with you
i hav no standard to abide to...i already hav your approval despite by imperfection; thank you"
-Kaycee

2011-05-02T00:30:00.002+08:00

there is an inner beauty about a woman who believes in herself, who knows she is capable of anything that she puts her mind to.. there is a beauty in the strength and determination of a woman who follows her own path, who isn’t thrown off by obstacles along the way. there is a beauty about a woman whose confidence comes from experiences; who knows she can fall, pick herself up, and move on..

2011-05-02T00:18:00.000+08:00

i believe in pink. i believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. i believe in kissing, kissing a lot. i believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. i believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. i believe that tomorrow is another day and i believe in miracles.

- you will meet her , she's very pretty even though she's sad for many days at a time. you'll see when she smiles, you'll love her.

2011-04-28T23:44:00.002+08:00

one of the prettiest video..

i like her way of spreading love..

2011-04-28T23:31:00.000+08:00

2011-04-28T23:25:00.005+08:00

I was 15. I broke up with this guy M. I cried so hard so hard and I called my best friend (who is now my boyfriend) My best friend tried calling M but he refused to talked about it. After 7 days of breaking up, M had a new girlfriend.That hurt even more, I tell you. I lost focus on my studies and stuff.It truly hurts.
And then my best friend called me every single night until I was feeling better. I guess we fall in love along the way. I did. We talked on the phone till 4 in the morning. He was there for me. Until my heart healed.
And then, on the 2nd august of 2009 after my teacher’s wedding ceremony he asked me to be his girlfriend.

''Don’t give up on love. You’ll be surprise..''

-not my love story. i don't know who it belongs to just found on a blog.But it did taught me love is still the greatest feeling alive on earth and it can heal worst situations.

2011-04-28T23:12:00.000+08:00

''Things, that always made me happy''

Waking up without an alarm..

The first sip of a good cup of tea in the morning..

The first smell of rain..

The phone ringing when you've been expecting a certain someone's call..

The first notes of a song associated with a great memory..

Putting moisturizer on a dry face..

Finishing a fat book that I couldn't put down..

The feeling of cool wind blowing through my hair when the windows of my car are down and the music blaring..

The look of pride on my parents faces for my achievements..

A power hug when I'm sad..

A warm blanket on a cold day..

2011-04-28T03:42:00.001+08:00

2011-04-28T03:34:00.001+08:00

It's like my Bass song, and if i carve for any figure..

i am carving for Nelly Furtado's BADLY!

2011-04-28T03:32:00.001+08:00

''i gave you, your dreams,

cause you meant the world..

so did i deserved to be left hurt?''

- Enrique Iglesias.

2011-04-28T03:26:00.001+08:00

i don't like, Enrique like this :'(

2011-04-28T03:17:00.000+08:00

i'll sit back and laugh out loud..

when ''Karma'' will punch you back..

2011-04-28T02:58:00.001+08:00

2011-04-28T02:46:00.004+08:00

i break into million pieces everyday..

& then i rejoin believing everything is fine...

and nothing can go worse, when the worst worse couldn't happen than already what happened..

-i wrote.

2011-04-28T00:32:00.001+08:00

2011-04-28T00:29:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T23:41:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T23:39:00.001+08:00

i rather argue with you,

than kissing someone else

2011-04-27T23:38:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T23:09:00.001+08:00

i FUCKING hate the video..

but how i could ignore such a SAX Lyrics.

2011-04-27T23:04:00.000+08:00

CAN MY CRAZY-NESS

Be another person's R E A L I T Y ? ;)

-sumaya,asking you.

Bombay Rockers- are back..

2011-04-27T22:48:00.001+08:00

2011-04-27T21:35:00.005+08:00

"That's okay,

YOU'RE NOT THE FIRST ASSHOLE TO BREAK MY HEART!!"

-ME,to poor KALV,

cause i was angry that day LOL!

In fact he found it a super UNIQUE line..

HAHAHAAH!

2011-04-27T19:20:00.001+08:00

I am one of the searchers. There are, I believe, millions of us. We are not unhappy, but neither are we really content. We continue to explore life, hoping to uncover its ultimate secret. We continue to explore ourselves, hoping to understand. We like to walk along the beach, we are drawn by the ocean, taken by its power, its unceasing motion, its mystery and unspeakable beauty. We like forests and mountains, deserts and hidden rivers, and the lonely cities as well. Our sadness is as much a part of our lives as is our laughter. To share our sadness with one we love is perhaps as great a joy as we can know — unless it be to share our laughter.
We searchers are ambitious only for life itself, for everything beautiful it can provide. Most of all we love and want to be loved. We want to live in a relationship that will not impede our wandering, nor prevent our search, nor lock us in prison walls; that will take us for what little we have to give. We do not want to prove ourselves to another or compete for love.
For wanderers, dreamers, and lovers, for lonely men and women who dare to ask of life everything good and beautiful. It is for those who are too gentle to live among wolves.
-James Kavanaugh

2011-04-27T19:09:00.001+08:00

2011-04-27T19:08:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T19:06:00.002+08:00

I finally understood what true love meant…love meant that you care for another person’s happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.
– Nicholas Sparks

2011-04-27T19:04:00.003+08:00

Decided.From today onwards,

i won't make a decision, when i'm angry

or make a promise when i'm happy.

2011-04-27T18:59:00.001+08:00

Jubayer taught me that,
Before you talk,listen & Before you react,think.

Dad taught me that,
Before you spend earn.

Cassie taught me that,
Before you quit, try.

Mum taught me that,
Before you criticize,wait.

2011-04-27T16:12:00.001+08:00

Enrique Iglesias- i'm born to love him.

2011-04-27T16:08:00.002+08:00

Sonam Kapoor- the ' BUBBLY girl'

2011-04-27T13:53:00.001+08:00

It’s people like you who make a rainy day sunny. You take the pain away from me, make a bad joke funny. Give me butterflies and make them fly in my tummy. Because beauty shines from your eyes to your feet, and I finally realized I’ll probably never find someone so sweet and I shouldn’t. Because you’re the only one I need. And I pray everyday that you never go and change, throw away your ways, or forget about my praise. Think about the days where I held you in my arms, told it to your face: I love the way you are.
-Bruno Mars

2011-04-27T13:43:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T13:39:00.002+08:00

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off of you.
– Maya Angelou

2011-04-27T13:33:00.000+08:00

2011-04-27T13:31:00.001+08:00

2011-04-27T13:29:00.002+08:00

“This is how it works. I love the people in my life, and I do for my friends whatever they need me to do for them, again and again, as many times as is necessary. For example, in your case you always forgot who you are and how much you’re loved. So what I do for you as your friend is remind you who you are and tell you how much I love you. And this isn’t any kind of burden for me, because I love who you are very much. Every time I remind you, I get to remember with you, which is my pleasure.”

— James Lecesne

2011-04-27T13:29:00.001+08:00

2011-04-27T13:26:00.001+08:00

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

— Anaïs Nin

2011-04-27T13:26:00.000+08:00

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

— Anaïs Nin

2011-04-27T13:25:00.000+08:00

Nothing I do lately seems to be going right. It’s like all the odds are against me. Even the littlest things go wrong. Everything I do or say gets misconstrued.
I’m getting so tired of this game, called Life. I need a time-out.

2011-04-27T13:23:00.001+08:00

“All I’d ever wanted was to forget. but even when I thought I had, pieces had kept emerging, like bits of wood floating up to the surface that only hint at the shipwreck below.”

— Sarah Dessen (Just Listen)

2011-04-27T13:18:00.001+08:00

“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”
— Louise Erdrich (The Painted Drum)

2011-04-27T13:11:00.002+08:00

Truth is,

You're the reason, I don't believe in love anymore.

2011-04-27T12:54:00.001+08:00

2011-04-27T01:01:00.000+08:00

"Impossible"

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did

And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know

And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did...

- SHONTELLE

2011-04-27T00:45:00.002+08:00

"Somebody's Me"

You, do you remember me?
Like I remember you?
Do you spend your life
Going back in your mind to that time?
'cause I, I walk the streets alone
I hate being on my own
And everyone can see that I really fell
And I'm going through hell
Thinking about you with somebody else

Somebody wants you
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breathe without you, it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That somebody's me
Yeah

How, how could we go wrong?
It was so good and now it's gone
And I pray at night that our paths soon will cross
And what we had isn't lost
'cause you're always right here in my though

Somebody wants you

Somebody needs you

Somebody dreams about you every single night

Somebody can't breathe without you, it's lonely

Somebody hopes that someday you will see

That somebody's me

Oh, yeah

You'll always be in my life
Even if I'm not in your life
'cause you're in my memory
You, when you remember me
And before you set me free
Oh, listen please

Somebody wants you
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breathe without you, it's lonely
Somebody hopes that someday you will see
That somebody's me
Somebody's me

- ENRIQUE IGLESIAS..

2011-02-04T22:21:00.000+08:00

2011-02-04T22:12:00.002+08:00

‎math tells us 3 of the saddest love stories:

Of parallel lines, who are never meant to meet.
Of tangent lines, who were together once then parted forever.
And of asymptotes, who could only get closer and closer, but could never be together..

2011-02-04T22:00:00.002+08:00

No one knows what's happening inside of my heart.

2011-02-04T21:55:00.003+08:00

Stones, heavy like the love you've shown.Solid as the ground we've known&I just want to carry on. We took it from the bottom up, even in a desert storm. Sturdy as a rock we hold on.Wishing every moment froze Now I just want to let you know..&every step we took we've grown. Look how fast the time has flown. A journey to a place unknown we're going down to history...

2011-02-04T21:53:00.004+08:00

The stars lean down to kiss you

And I lie awake and miss you
Pour me a heavy dose of atmosphere
Cause I'll doze off safe and soundly
But I'll miss your arms around me
I'd send a postcard to you, dear
Cause I wish you were here

-Vanilla Twilight,Owl city

2011-02-04T21:50:00.001+08:00

Loving ones self is a great deal. But you can not expect to love your self if your conscious knows how evil your are inside. & If you do not have love for yourself than it radiates out wards & no one else will.

2011-02-04T21:42:00.002+08:00

The stormy days are gone. Watch me walk away from the past,,never turning my back. I am going to look straight forward,,reach out my hands in an attempt to get a hold of my map. With a permanent marker i am going to mark my path,,making sure that's the only direction i am to head. No more getting distracted,,no more dwelling on autumns past. You can remain the pot hole on the side of the road,,forever stoned and cracked. But guess what love I have driven off,,leaving you in the past. Meanwhile your gonna remain on the side of that road lonely&unable to start moving again..

2011-02-03T15:18:00.001+08:00

2011-02-03T15:17:00.000+08:00

2011-02-03T15:14:00.000+08:00

2011-02-03T15:00:00.000+08:00

2011-02-03T14:58:00.001+08:00

“I just think happiness is what makes you pretty. Period. Happy people are beautiful. They become like a mirror and they reflect that happiness. If somebody walks in the room and they’re drop-dead gorgeous and sexy, it’s really fun to look at. But if someone is giving of their spirit and they make you laugh and feel good, that’s a whole other level of beauty.”
— Drew Barrymore

2011-02-02T22:39:00.002+08:00

if you have to leave,I wish that you would just leave...Cause your presence still lingers here and it won't leave me alone,these wounds won't seem to heal,this pain is just too real,there is just too much that time cannot erase..

-said by my pal

Amara Ahmed

2011-01-29T22:24:00.005+08:00

''Keep in mind that there will be reasons to become sad, but there will never be reasons to stay sad. Life itself is dramatic so just LAUGH IT OFF!"

-Sir Edward

2011-01-29T22:22:00.002+08:00

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we
now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world,

and all there ever will be to know and understand".
- Albert Einstein

did you know?

2011-01-09T17:30:00.000+08:00

When you carry the Quran, shaitan gets a headache.

When you open it, he collapses.
When he sees you reading it, he faints.
When he sees you are living what you read,
he flees..

let me define friendship..

2011-01-08T00:42:00.001+08:00

Friendship is knowing when to hold on and why to let go. People are what they are and who they may be with or without you. There are people one will respect irrespective of what is known to be true. The person may be the nicest person to you and the most cruel to someone else.

In my experience some people have been in my life because I respect their point of view. There are others I have tried to hold on to because of feeling sorry for what they are to other people. Those are the worst ones to hold on to; you know where they are coming from: they tear you down behind your back and to anyone they feel equal or superior. But since you feel you can handle their selfishness you tolerate their behavior. They smile in your face and attack you socially with anyone who will listen. Now a true friend is someone you consider while considering yourself. You want to see that person happy. If there is a reason to keep your mouth shut you will do it. If something has to be said you will constructively tell the person. Tell the person who need to hear your perspective and not the whole planet.Friendship will not hurt you as long as you respect the friendship. If you do not intend to be a real part of someone; be lonely. it is not feasible to hold on to a friend when you know you like nothing about that person. Sooner or later the snake will bite you as it has everyone else. A friend at the end of a relationship will still respect your privacy by not knowing anything about you. A friend will not get information on you to pass on to someone else.

The other type I detest are the ones who want to know what you are doing with your significant or inconsequential mate. generally it is to match stories with some other ex-lover who claim to know you.

A true friend does not have to be socially or financially where you are and may or may not expect you to help them to the next point.A true friend will listen to you and not to others who only know what they think they know.A friend cannot tolerate the hunger of a stranger as well as the hardship of an acquaintance. A friend may need you for a reason other that you suspect. The name of friendship is" accessibility." Friends offer good prayers for another's deliverance from whatever may stop this other friend from happiness.

2011-01-08T00:28:00.001+08:00

I'm sorry if I'm not perfect, as perfect my love for you,
Eternal all nothing is perfect under this sky
human beings have weaknesses, as well as animal
I'm just expecting you to repair this weakness
This weakness is not required, but receive me sober
Cause this is the real me..

2011-01-08T00:25:00.001+08:00

To want to get better means be ready to face the pain. It is only when you face the pain that you will begin to gain a healthy perspective from which you can then think less distortedly, to the point where you will be able to recognize when you are so triggered as to blur your past with someone in your present. Personal responsibility is key here as well. You must take responsibility for your needs, your wants, your pain, your actions and you must learn that there is no excuse for abuse. Blaming anyone else, even someone who abused or hurt you in childhood is not going to help you heal now. It will not help you meet your needs. It will not help you learn how to maintain relationships. It will not help you to find yourself.

the universe is brought back from the brink of destruction every time you smile

2011-01-07T21:47:00.005+08:00

Whatever you are doing, don’t let past move your mind; don’t let future disturb you. Because the past is no more, and the future is not yet. To live in the memories, to live in the imagination, is to live in the non-existential. And when you are living in the non-existential, you are missing that which is existential. Naturally you will be miserable, because you will miss your whole life.

Everybody have to grown up and get up! I hope you will have a wonderful year, that you’ll dream dangerously and outrageously, that you’ll make something that didn't exist before you made it, that you will be loved and that you will be liked, and that you will have people to love and to like in return. And, most importantly (because I think there should be more kindness and more wisdom in the world right now), that you will, when you need to be, be wise, and that you will always be kind.

Sometimes you have to run away so you can see who will run after you. Sometimes you have to speak softer, just to see who’s actually listening. Sometimes you have to take a step back, to see who’s still standing by your side. Sometimes you have to make a wrong decision, to see who’s there when everything falls apart. Sometimes you have to let go of the one you love, just to see if they love you enough to come back.

Take a deep breath, calm down. Take ten steps back from a knife, lighter, or mirror. Turn on your iPod, lay on the floor and take more breaths. You are worth more than this, it doesn’t have control over you. You’re the one who will form your destiny, your own pathways through life. Don’t let shit tie you down or break you. It’s okay to cry, breath again. You’re alive and you’re wonderful...

2011-01-05T16:56:00.000+08:00

2011-01-05T16:49:00.000+08:00

2011-01-05T16:48:00.001+08:00

I just think happiness is what makes you pretty. Period. Happy people are beautiful. They become like a mirror and they reflect that happiness. If somebody walks in the room and they’re drop-dead gorgeous and sexy, it’s really fun to look at. But if someone is giving of their spirit and they make you laugh and feel good, that’s a whole other level of beauty.”
— Drew Barrymore

2011-01-05T16:46:00.001+08:00

"Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous."

2011-01-05T15:44:00.004+08:00

''You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow
Maybe you're reason why all the doors are closed
So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road
Like a lightning bolt, your heart will blow
And when it's time, you'll know
You just gotta ignite the light and let it shine''

Katy Perry - Firework.

2011-01-05T15:08:00.004+08:00

'' Happy For No Reason, Thank God for that''

- Priyanka Chopra.

2011-01-05T14:44:00.003+08:00

And I hope you have learned what is obvious to a child.

That life is simply a collection of little lives,
each lived one day at a time.
That each day should be spent finding beauty in flowers
and poetry and talking to animals.
That a day spent with dreaming and sunsets
and refreshing breezes cannot be bettered.
But most of all, I hope you've learned that life
is about sitting on benches next to ancient creeks
with your hand on your knee and sometimes,
on good days, for falling in love

2010-12-30T01:04:00.001+08:00

I feel like I am made of glass. And at any moment, all my pieces could shatter and break. It's always easier to blame other people isn't it? It would be easy to say that he did this to me, that he became such a part of my soul, that his departure from my life sent me spiraling out of control. And maybe to an extent that's true. There's no doubt that I gave my heart to a boy who ran so far away with it that I'm not sure it will ever really come back. But to put all that blame on him would be naive, and I would never want to flatter him in that way. The truth is, I was broken before he came barreling into my life. And now that he's gone, I'm just one step closer to shattering. My problem isn't making someone else fall in love with me, it's falling in love with myself. I've struggled for years to be happy with who I am, and I made the mistake of letting someone else try to make me happy, make me more alive. But how can I fault someone for falling out of love with me, when I have never even loved myself?

2010-12-30T01:01:00.000+08:00

If you love someone, ask him for nothing. Don’t hold him from his destiny. Don’t keep him from going off in search of his own answers. Don’t ask him for commitment. You will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly, and not as something obligatory.Don’t ask him for promises. If you are patient, if you have faith, you will knowing your heart when the right time for promises has come. And when that time arrives, then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free, and have instead gained a richer, fuller life, a wealth of experiences, and a stronger certainty of your desires.But should he not return to you, then life hasn’t cheated you because no promises were broken. Your bitterness will not last long, and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least, this beautiful soul has colored your life, that knowing him has already made life infinitely more meaningful. By setting a person free, you run a risk of him not returning.But always remember that you found him beautiful precisely because he was free. People are like sunlight. You can feel their warmth, and their glow, but you can’t hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever. People choose to stay. But a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options.

2010-12-29T20:32:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T09:06:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T09:01:00.002+08:00

9 hardest thing of your life..

2010-12-01T08:52:00.003+08:00

1. Being questioned when you yourself don’t understand.

2. Pretending to be innocent of what you know about.
3. Trying to forget something you know you never will.
4. Admitting you were wrong after you have been so insistent that you were right.
5. Debating with yourself.
6. Accepting the fact that some things are not meant to be.
7. Trying to understand when you just can’t.
8. Realizing that you have been tricked after you have given your whole trust.
9. Parting ang letting go of someone you’ve loved all your life.

2010-12-01T08:46:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T08:44:00.002+08:00

Maybe she’s not the most beautiful girl in the world, and maybe she’s not the brightest crayon in the box. But she’s real, without even trying. And that right there, is natural beauty.

simple, but nice..

2010-12-01T08:37:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T08:26:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T08:25:00.001+08:00

Love sometimes requires it's space..

Distance is essential too, too much closeness ain't good..

- i wrote this for you

2010-12-01T08:16:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T08:15:00.001+08:00

Sometimes there is nothing to be said. Sometimes nothing should be said. I just want to find someone who won’t run away. Someone to look me in the eyes and tell me it’s ok that things don’t always go right. That this is how life works, and how it will always work. That it’s not going to be easy. Today, tomorrow, the next day, but it will somehow get better.

2010-12-01T08:05:00.000+08:00

2010-12-01T08:04:00.001+08:00

"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together!"
-Marilyn Monroe

2010-11-26T00:38:00.001+08:00

“The toughest sacrifices are the ones we don’t see coming, when we don’t have time to come up with a strategy to pick a side or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us and not the other way around, that’s when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear.”
— Meredith Grey, Greys Anatomy

2010-11-26T00:37:00.001+08:00

''I am convinced that no one loses anyone,
because no one owns anyone.
That is the true experience of freedom:
having the most important thing in the world
without owning it.”
— Paulo Coelho

2010-11-26T00:35:00.000+08:00

“No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater…The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.”
— Sarah Dessen (This Lullaby)

2010-11-26T00:33:00.000+08:00

“Sometimes people are beautiful.
Not in looks.
Not in what they say.
Just in what they are.”

- i wrote this for you

2010-11-26T00:22:00.001+08:00

Every man, when he gets quiet, when he becomes desperately honest with himself, is capable of uttering profound truths. We all derive from the same source. There is no mystery about the origin of things. We are all part of creation, all kings, all poets, all musicians; we have only to open up, to discover what is already there.”
— Henry Miller

2010-11-26T00:17:00.001+08:00

“Self-respect cannot be hunted. It cannot be purchased. It is never for sale. It cannot be fabricated out of public relations. It comes to us when we are alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when we suddenly realize that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the truth we have spoken it.”
— Whitney Griswold

2010-11-26T00:12:00.000+08:00